Sunday, November 1, 2009

Eventful day

Today i just want to write down whats happening today. Today I played my role as:
i. citizen of the cyberworld
ii. a housewife
iii. a good member of the society
iv. teacher
v. mother, counselor and a good friend
Role no. 1 A citizen of the cyberworld
I woke up very early at 5.00 am and very eager to check my facebook coz just yesterday i was able to get a link with my sisters and nieces. We got in touch and felt so much closer as tho there is no boundary between us . That is what i call as meeting in the cyber space. I felt that i was back at home. Oh it was so wounderful.
Role no. 2 A housewife
Tho i was busy with my cyberworld my house chores was not neglected
Role no.3 A good member of the society
Ikut rombongan org gi kahwin istilahnya amik makan.Kak Kiah di belakang rumah sewa. Sbenarnya malas nak gi tp dah dia ngaku nak gi so no choice.Actually i dah dpt tolak dengan baik pelawaan itu tp kak kiah tu bijak. Dilihatnya dia menyidai kain cepat2nya datang ngajak.I malas nak ikut sbenarnya rasanya mcm dia tak ikhlas je dgn kita. Lama 4 tahun duduk di rumah sewa ni payah sgt dia nak tegur.pada mula2 dulu lg le pandang pun tak. Maklumle kita org penyewa.Agaknya sbb dulu ikut rombongan Jabar gi kahwin kat Merlimau tu dia ajak nak meramaikan rombongan dia. Smlm masa kita gi rumah dia tak dibaginya kita bag isi barang utk jemputan. Kita nak balik bawa sekotak cumi je. Dia suka bagi beg tu berpilih pilih ada org dia bagi ada org dia tak bagi. I cukup tidak berkenan didouble standard jemputan begitu. Nak bg bg pada semua tak nak bg jgn bagi semua ni ada first kelas jemputan dan kita ni hanyale org mendatang je. Kecik hati smlm tp nasib baik kak kiah sedar akan tidak sedap gitu agaknya dia pun bg beg yang nampak dah ronyok2 tp terima jugale dengan hati yg terluka. Org lain sesampai je terus diberikan beg kita dah hampir terlepas jgn malu kemudian hari agaknya baru dia nak bagi kita beg tu. Sebenarnya apbila ada kelas kelas jemputan mcm tu kita yang balik pun segan. Org lain balik bawa beg kita balik tangan kosong terasa jgn tidak je dia jemput kita. Pernah pergi jemputan dibuatkan begitu juga rumah org kahwin seblh dengan ayu car wash. org lain diberikan beg kita balik tangan kosong sebutir gula gulapun tak dapat. malu rasanya dan kecik hati. Lps itu jemputan hari lain tak nak gi dah.
Tp ida sangat baik. Dia ada tgk kita ni jenis yang bukan sombong tp penyegan agaknya dia bungkus makanan banyak bagi kita. Terima kasih ida.
Role no. 4 A teacher
Hari ni siap soalan kertas 2 perdagangan kelas rose. Siap print lg 2 set sbb tidak boleh print kat sekolah. Rasa marah dan kecewa pun ada juga. Apsal pula kita print/fotostat dengan no claim. Kita boleh claim kt sekolah sbnarnya. Mm kita bayar yuran dan mereka layak dpt peruntukan peperiksaan.Kita ada banyak duit boleh diberikan claim kepada guru tp kalau kita pilih untuk menyusahkan diri sendiri tak tahu apa akibatnya nanti...... ada ke sense of belonging di kalangan para guru...... biarkan..........
Role no 5 a mother, a counselor and a good friend.
Kesian anakku hari ini. She is growing up to be a matured girl. What she is going thru is part of growing up..... I don know what will happen after this i can only hope and pray for the best to happen to her. May Allah give her strength and blessing. surely Allah loves her and ..... i don know what to write.... as tho i can feel the pain in her heart. i can only comfort her and give her reasons ... that is part and parcel of growing up. i told her that she should be grateful that she been given the chance to love and being loved.... a sweet experience for a growing up girl.... The pain of love is the same as the pain you experience when you first learn to walk or cycling. Your first experience learning to cycle, you will fall and hurt yourself but it is from this experience that you will to be an expert. And so is her. She might be a little possessive, swings with jealously but that is because she is a first timer.She is too open because she has open her heart and feels that half of her is his and half of his is her. With that in mind she would not like anybody to intrude into her territory..... but i have told her many times.... you have too long a time in front of you... anything can happen at any time..... so spare some space for yourself... i told her there are something that you have to keep to yourself and will become your secret weapon... i guess she is too naive... but anyway let her go thru this experience at least ... it is an exeprience... an experience is something that you have to go thru to be more matured..... so welcome to the world of matured people.. my love....... But there is one condition that i gave her before she indulge herself in there.... i told her... if you want to go into a relationship you must also be ready to let it go any time.... because there is nothing is eternity except Allah..... So that is experience.... The sun will still shine and life will still go on cos oxygen is free... so take a deep breath and surely it will be breathing taking seperti dekat highway tu... orang yang berdiri dekat cliff menyedut udara segar..........
That is what happen today...............

Thursday, October 29, 2009

What It Means To Be A Teacher

Teachers much hated by most students. But why? Very few teachers are liked or even respected by students. There can be many reasons why...... Depends very much on how a teacher brings himself about can be the ultimate reason why most teachers are disliked or not respected by students. To some extend it can also be the natural charism and charm of the individual teacher that becomes the nature of attraction. Some teachers are so kind yet are not liked by students while some are so inhumane but surprisingly much liked by students. What is the yardstick for the students like or dislike for a certain teacher? One very common and much visible gesture is how many gifts a teacher gets from his students on teachers day. But can this really be a genuine act of like or can it also be a mean to show how much actually the students want to tell their teacher to be kind to them. In other words the students want to say "Teacher I want to be your friend so please befriend me". If that is so then actually this is the beginning of a bribery act. To give this inhumane teachers gifts just because the students want to be given a favour in return. If that is so then ..............
So what does it mean to be a teacher? Teachers are replacement for parents during the time in which children are away from their parents. So a teacher should treat the students as much he would treat his own children. If they do wrong they should be punished and if they do good deeds they should be appreciated. Love them as much as they would love their own children.Surely when they are irritating so much as their own children the teacher will scream cos at home the teacher also scream when they get annoyed with their own children.
Bringing up children needs application of some psychological approach. Teachers are to guide and not imprison these growing up children. The approach towards children at different ages are different. Very young children in standard 1 to standard 3 may need more of the loving approach. Students in Standard 4 until form 1 more of threatening approach may be effective and that is why the threatening approach of counting 1,2,3 ... may be effective. But try the threatening approach of counting with the form 2 ,3 and 4 then don't be surprise if a teacher will hear the students continuing counting 4,5,6...... and so on. Surely a teacher with little knowledge or experience will get heated up and marked the students as rude, disrespectful and the sort. But actually students at this age may need more actions than words meaning if the students do wrong, there should be no threatening but actions have to be taken. If at this age only threats are given,the students are already wise enough to access how far a teacher really mean his words.At this age of standard 4 until form one is a period of crucial upbringing. At this point they are going to establish their own values. This is the time of shaping up a real human. This is the time of building their colours. When they are in form two until form four is the time for then to practice their beliefs.If they have shape themselves in contra with the local normal norms the teachers will have a hard time reshaping them. Reshaping may need a lot of patience and compromise. Too harsh on them may result in their retaliation and may cause more distortion. At this point a little bit of compromise may be better. There are times when a teacher have to close one eye and let the students themselves put things right after guidance is given. A little bit of room for freedom be given so that they can have their own self-assessment and finally make a good decision. By doing so the students will turn out to an individual who is able to think, make decision and hopefully a good leader in the future.
At the age when they are in form five and six or pre-u they will finally come to their senses and able to be independent individuals who can contribute to the school society.
If a student grows up to become an individual who can contribute positively to the society then a teachers job is successfully done. On the contrary if a student fail to contribute positively to the society then a teacher has failed his job. It would be the same as a doctor whose patient died on his operation table or a lawyer who failed to save his client. The difference is a doctor has only one chance either do or die, a lawyer has a few chances to appeal to court but a teacher only knows that he fail his job only after ten or twelve years. What a tragedy...................

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Hari kelima

Hari ini gi lunch kat kings hotel ngan budak pend khas. Tp pelik saya baca liza msg "jgn pakai baju biru" sebenarnya jgn lupa pakai baju biru. takut sangat agaknya sampai apa orang tulis dah jadi lain. Anyway sedap gak. Malangnya saya tak ingat apa saya makan kaki sudah sakit nak gout le tu.... adoi jgn le

Monday, October 26, 2009

update hari ke3

takde apa yang penting kecuali peluang untuk lepaskan pp pk . mudahan dpt. muyah ada tukar no hset .

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Hari kedua : Topic- Kesungguhan dalam kerjaya

Ramai kawan kawan dah pun maju ke depan sangat tapi diri ini masih di sini juga menjadi guru biasa. yak apa rezeki masing ,asing mungkin juga saya dah merasai kedudukan itu . Eh eh merepek ni saja nak try masuk dan update blog

tersilap

Hari ini delete 3 posting kerana tersalah. Ia hanya buat comot sahaja

Friday, October 23, 2009

baby comel

kenapa gambar baby comel tidak keluar ye. nanti kena cari sebab. maybe tak save kot

Teruja

Terkejut juga dapati tak dapat buka blog aku. Cari cari jumpa juga tap kena ikuy www.blogger.com. pas tu dapat le khatizah blog dashboard

Donny show

Toy story

kucing yang comel


Bunga favourite


Kali ketiga nak mula cari gambar

Ada ke gambar ni

Trial kali dua

dah mula seronok ni. I am trying another one. I hope some one will read it soon.

Hei My New Blog

Today I am very excited cos just learn to make my very own blog. Nanti saya boleh buatkannya sebagai dairy saya. Seronoknya.